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Cost and Continuity of
Counseling Joe Ferguson, PhD | June 26, 2009
Many people seem to think of personal counseling as
though it were a marriage or a prison term, which tend
to be lengthy, continuous and costly. This stereotype
must be a hangover from the days of Freudian
psychoanalysis which, in its classical form, was
literally intended to be undertaken
daily for
years if not decades. In classical psychoanalysis, the
distress that people sometimes feel in the normal course
of living was assumed to be so obscure and exotic that
only highly trained psychoanalysts were capable of
interpreting it. The interminable daily sessions were
necessary in order for civilians (tellingly referred to
as “patients”) to finally grasp the exotic nature of
what they were
really thinking and feeling, which insight was
considered to be
the intended “cure”. Among the many unfortunate
consequences of this approach are an unhealthy
dependence upon the analyst and the prospect of a
permanent new recurring expense.
This misguided stereotype
continues to haunt the field of psychotherapy and
personal counseling, and it afflicts the occupants of
both chairs in the consulting room. Many clients feel
apprehensive or guilty about suspending or terminating a
regular weekly counseling schedule and many counselors
regard this either as a reflection of professional
failure or as lost revenue. This is not my perspective.
I would like my clients to utilize my professional
services as they would those of a lawyer, an accountant,
or a physical therapist; whose special expertise you
call upon periodically as you need it to meet your
personal objectives. My own professional expertise is in
the facilitation of insight and action, which is useful
not only for the relief of distress but for all manner
of accomplishment.
Like my counterparts in law,
accounting, and physical therapy I can often deliver
some value in a single consultation and our work on the
projects we define together should be focused, limited,
and conclusive. Now, like a personal trainer rather than
a physical therapist, there is also a mode in which we
can collaborate indefinitely in an ongoing series of
projects that carry you ever further in the directions
of your own evolving choice. This sort of project aims
at exhilaration and fulfillment rather than at relief,
recovery, and resolution. I’ll bet I can continue to
stimulate and facilitate your personal development
indefinitely if that is your desire.
Personal counseling and
psychotherapy are consultative services rather than
continuous relationships and you should feel free to
utilize my expertise in that way without fear of
commitment or termination anxiety. Call me.
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